Whoever said that ’Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus’ should have probably known that, the quote shall be used for generations to come. The women are the most mysterious species on Earth. They are not a mystery only to men but are also a mystery to another woman. I totally disagree with the idea that, only a woman can understand a woman better. It is a hypothetical statement. A woman can understand another woman no better than a man because, a woman will only reveal what she wants to reveal even to her female friends.
Women always expect others to comprehend and understand their unspoken wishes and words especially the male species in this Earth. This is something that has been going on for centuries. This presumption has not changed, with the changes of time and advancement of science and technology. Probably now that the women are more outspoken and have the freedom to air their opinions, some of their unspoken wishes have come to light. However, the list of wishes that I am going to share with you is just a few drops of water from an ocean.
· Women always like to be admired and loved. They expect their men to be open in their thought with respect to the admiration. They expect to be told that they are beautiful even if it is a lie.
· The best way to woo a woman is to surprise her with little gifts and flowers. Take her out on surprise dates and there will be peace at home for the next four to five days.
· Never wait for the women to tell you to share the household chores. They expect the men to initiate it and share the responsibility as well. Cleaning up the house together can be more fun, than doing it all alone. Men should remember that if you want some appreciation from your woman, there could be no better way than helping her out with the cleaning and sharing the household chores.
· Men should realize that just how they have their priorities set right women have their priorities as well. It is just that the order differs. Show interests in their careers and passions.
· Women expect their men to spend quality and quantity time with them. Therefore, men please keep aside your iPad’s and Laptops and spare some time for the woman in your life. Better still if you can cook up a meal over the weekend for your woman giving her the well-deserved break you are blessed for life!
· Men Beware! Never ever, make the mistake of comparing your girlfriend or wife to your mother. You are doomed forever. The girlfriend or your wife will like your mother but she will never appreciate your comparison with her. Every woman has her own identity.
· A woman always likes her man to have a sense of humor but never make the mistake of making her the butt of joke.
· Appreciate her circle of friends and make an effort to know them. Just as how the men expect that their women entertain their friends, the same way learn to entertain her circle of friends.
· A woman will never like it if her man was going to show his male chauvinism in front of relatives and friends. So please hold your strings back and be the ever-protective man.
· It is okay if the men are going to have the final say in all-important matters and take the decision but also involve the woman in the discussion. Make her feel important even if she is going to give some silly suggestion.
· Last but not the least it is okay if the men do not remember their birthdays but NEVER forget to remember your woman’s birthday or else you will be buried alive.
It is important that the man empathize with the woman in his life and the woman friends. Women do not want sympathy but some understanding from the men folk, after all women are from Venus.
Will come back soon with what the men expect from their women because they are a different species altogether –from ‘Mars’.
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